We’ve compiled 35 conversation-starting questions — along with help from psychologists Rebecca Leslie and Erlanger Turner and therapist Nicole O-Pries — that can help deepen the bond you share with your siblings. Ask your brother or sister some of these during your next phone call or family visit. You might be surprised by their answers.

When did my siblings tell me to move out of the House?

My mother passed a little over a month ago. My brother came to the house the next day with my sisters and informed me that I had to move out. The “for sale” sign was up five days after my mother died. I couldn’t even mourn my mother in peace. Each day, they would call me and harass me about the house.

Why did my siblings want to put my mother in a nursing home?

When my mother made me promise not to let my siblings put her in a nursing home, I realized I was going to have to accept my role as primary care giver. She is my mom and I was OK with that. There have been arguments with my sisters and brother, who have accused me of taking advantage of my mother in order to live rent-free.

Why do siblings turn on each other when a parent dies?

Unfortunately, as this column has indicated over the years, siblings sometimes turn on each other when a parent dies and old family resentments come rising to the surface. Put bluntly, for some people it’s payback time for perceived wrongdoings.

What are the rules for sibling tag questions?

That’s why we made this comprehensive list of questions. There are no specific rules, you can ask and answer questions in the order you guys decide, just remember, having fun is the most important thing, both for you and for making a decent quality video. Please tell us, who is more athletic?

How to select all siblings until another sibling is not empty?

If you are in XSLT you can select from the following-sibling axis because you can use the current () function: I finally went another route, because I’m outside of XSLT, so I select all the following-sibling nodes, and iterate on them, and stop my loop when I encounter the next not empty.

Is it okay to ask your sister about your parents?

By asking about your parents, sisters can bond over things they either both told their parents or kept secret, which is pretty cool. 9What was a moment in college or high school that you’d never want to relive?